Should everybody play?

Is it good enough just to be on a team?  Should everybody get to play at the 7^th/8^th grade or high school level in a competitive school system?

There comes a time when the whole “participation (everyone has to play)” agenda has to, and should go out of the preverbal window!

By me officiating a couple of sports, I often times see the cons of this mind set, especially at lower levels.  Kids (and I’ll use this term to describe the players) enter a game, sometimes with NO concept of what’s going on, or how to effectively play the chosen sport.  I had a situation not long ago where the coaches were deciding whether to play everyone, or try to WIN the game.  Granted this was one of their “rival” schools, so I’m sure both sides wanted to come away with the “W”.  One coach says to the other, “go for it, get a win…we need it”  That’s sports people…as one former NFL coach and now TV personality once said…..”you play to WIN the game”

Definition of Sports - an athletic activity requiring skill or physical prowess and often of a competitive nature

During the match (volleyball), one of the parents/grandparents gets up and walks to the table to “discuss” why his daughter/granddaughter wasn’t playing….Really dude?  For those of you know about volleyball, it’s a very detailed and sometimes tedious task to keep score, etc. at the table, and you absolutely cannot have someone standing in front of you complaining, let alone blocking your view for a “valid” reason.  I could see the look on the coaches face (he’s keeping score for the team), so I blew my whistle and motioned for the table to ask the gentleman to move away from the table.  He turns around and looks at me and mutters something that I couldn’t decipher (probably a good thing for him…lol), so I wave him away from the table and state verbally “please do not stand in front of the table during the match sir…Thank you”.  He proceeded to go back to his seat, stopping along the way to seek support from other parents I guess.

I understand parents/grandparents wanting to support their children’s athletic endeavors, but also support them by taking some time to take him/her out on the court/field/ice or what have you, and work with him/her so that he/she has a chance to get better and EARN playing time.

When I came up, there was no such thing as this “everybody plays” agenda.  If you weren’t good enough to play, you didn’t play!  Not playing is and has always been the BEST motivation for kids to work harder so that they can play.  I sat behind guys coming up, and that made me want to work harder… get in the weight room, on the court, dribbling the ball at all hours in my basement, shoveling snow from the courts so that we could play in the winter, etc. so that I could deservingly be out there.  Heck, I believe we had close to 20 players on my high school Freshman basketball team, and not one of us “settled” for just getting in the game.  I was fortunate to be one that played, but each one on that team worked hard in practice, and never took for granted that everybody would play just because they were on the team.  Playing football in high school, there were kids that didn’t have a chance to play when we were in 9^th grade, but by working hard, by the time we were seniors, some of them were out there also!

Let’s rethink this mind set and make accountability (for putting in the work) a bigger priority if one chooses to play sports competitively.    Hard work pays off!!

#rantcomplete